https://peertube.martiabernathey.com/videos/watch/e520fe53-2a98-4e4d-98b4-d3af741e3968 Recent discussions about who qualifies as a "TERF" have devolved into excuse-making and personal attacks, shifting the focus from specific actions to identity. Instead of framing the conversation around “What she said or did was TERFy,” it often turns into a defensive “she is” dialogue. Jay Smooth’s video, "How to Tell Someone They Sound Racist," emphasizes the importance of addressing behavior by saying, “What you said was racist,” rather than attacking someone’s character. This distinction is crucial, especially in conversations about trans rights, where dogpiling can backfire, creating a rallying point for actual TERFs who bond over shared grievances. As a white trans person, I recall my early transition when I lacked awareness about concepts like white supremacy. I once used the N-word in a post about RuPaul’s comments, unaware of the implications. Had I faced dogpiling, it could have validated my ignorance rather than challenged it. This toxic support network for bigotry allows individuals to gain attention without reflecting on their prejudices. To foster genuine change, we must prioritize constructive conversations and address ignorance with empathy, creating space for growth rather than further alienation. #Feminism #TransRights #transgender #TERF #TERFPipeline Tue, 26 May 2026 15:31:10 GMT https://validator.w3.org/feed/docs/rss2.html PeerTube - https://peertube.martiabernathey.com https://peertube.martiabernathey.com/lazy-static/avatars/50716b50-414f-402a-89da-55c7e7882f4d.jpg https://peertube.martiabernathey.com/videos/watch/e520fe53-2a98-4e4d-98b4-d3af741e3968 All rights reserved, unless otherwise specified in the terms specified at https://peertube.martiabernathey.com/about and potential licenses granted by each content's rightholder.